But you have to improve your marriage behavior if you want success. The first reaction in your mind, when you make such a harsh threatening discovery is going to be self-protective, accompanied by fear; these are primal.
Third, your marriage is not over, unless you choose it to be. You must change your behaviors of thought, feeling, speech, and actions. Reading a book or two, even one of mine, will likely not be enough. When you discover your husband is using online dating sites you will automatically assume the worst, imagining he is following through, and meeting other women. That is probably not happening, but it is not too late for your marriage, even if he is.
“There’s a lot of people who are culturally Jewish...(and) fine with something more casual.” Still, finding potential members is tough even in more of the liberal pockets of the borough.
Williamsburg resident Mark Sagon, 26, snubbed Shevinsky during one of her recent recruitment drives, on Bedford Avenue, where she approaches strangers and asks their dating styles.
And I don’t judge what they are going to do,” said Elissa Shevinsky, 33, founder of Join Jspot.com, for Jewish singles, and Make Out Labs.com, for unattached Gentiles. Sometimes sex turns into love.” Shevinsky has been combing the streets of Williamsburg, Bushwick, Park Slope, Crown Heights, and other neighborhoods packed with singles under the age of 40, looking for recruits who are turned on by the idea, which will officially launch in the next month.
I realize, as do you, that there are infinite varieties of men who engage in online dating for infinite reasons.First, Although it’s unfortunate when a husband’s errant thoughts manifest into such destructive behaviors.But, its truly a mistake to take those actions as indictments of who they “really” are.“I am more conservative, I wouldn’t approach dating like that,” said Sagon, turned off by the thought of hunting for sex on the web.But those who liked the idea said the rest of Brooklyn are being a bunch of prudes.