At least that's how I wish it were." Instead, date night has turned into a pitch meeting, according to Kim Wolfe, 26, a Web designer from Sarasota, Florida: "It's always just drinks or coffee instead of a real date, because no one wants to commit more than 20 minutes to get to know you.I would love to spend a day roaming the park or checking out a museum, instead of feeling like I'm on a timer."SO HOW DID WE GET HERE? The apparently enormous number of available single people online threatens to make each individual date a little less special—your date is, after all, only a click away.I was nearly home when I realised I’d left my coat in her house, but no way was I going back for it.At first, I tried meeting women by getting out and about — going dancing and joining a bowls club, but without much success; there just didn’t seem to be many women out there.You get the impression that some women think men like me are so desperate that they don’t have to take any care over their appearance when you meet.
"It needs to involve getting to know each other and having a sense of romance.
No cell phone back then, so I was stranded out at the reservoir with a loser who clearly had no respect for me. There was a huge filthy mess of dishes in the kitchen, and a mountain of dirty laundry in the bedroom."You can start wherever you want," he said, and flicked on the TV.
I felt beyond "used." I had to give plasma so we could go on this crappy outing and then I got sick so he proceeded to drink all the beer! ) I was very naive and I felt so embarrassed for him, that he thought that this was even remotely close to acceptable human behavior, that I downplayed the whole event and tried to pretend it had never happened. When I asked what the h--- he meant, he replied that in India, the women do all the cleaning, so I'd better get started. I did a summer internship at a museum years ago when I was in college.
On a first date when I was a freshman in college, we were going to go to the reservoir for the afternoon on a beautiful Indian Summer day.
First, we had to "get some cash." He took me to a blood bank to donate plasma!
