Many older virgins feel conflicted and worried when they think about finding a man to have sex with them.
Older virgins often worry that if they tell a man about their situation, then that man won’t want to have sex with them.
“They made me feel disgusted and objectified,” she tells Sixth Tone.
But when Yang entered college, her more sexually liberal peers ridiculed her for being a virgin.
Many say it reflects the “Giant Infant” culture described by psychologist Wu Zhihong in her acclaimed book to be somewhat progressive.
“I don't know, maybe she's not a virgin after the show. ” While the reality TV yenta might just be pulling our leg, we’re holding out hope the brunette beauty finally found the right one.
Are you a woman in your 20s or 30s who hasn’t had sex yet?
Most of the time these men won’t want to have sex with you because they worry you will grow “attached” or “clingy.” This fear represents lingering adolescent concerns more than an expression of any adult reality.
SHANGHAI — In a recent episode of the popular Chinese TV series “Ode to Joy,” which began its second season this month, Qiu Yingying, one of the show’s five young female protagonists living in Shanghai, gets dumped by her boyfriend after he finds out that she is not a virgin.