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However, I was rather immature (more like a 25 year old in many ways) and she was very mature, so it really didn't seem that significant in some ways. There were ways in which I was her mentor as she figured out how to be an adult in the world.
We loved each other a great deal and it was beautiful for a time.
Eventually our differences overwhelmed us but I don't think that was inevitable.
It was more a function of the fact that we both had some emotional work to do. That relationship was a great learning experience but it didn't have the potential to go past a certain level of commitment. She had serious issues that I doubt she'll ever be able to resolve. But she was beautiful, charming and fun (when she wasn't being scary and unpredictable). She was a nice person and we remain friendly, wishing each other happy birthday on facebook and holding each other in high regard. Part of this may have been because I had done a lot of therapy and was ready for a level of intimacy I'd not been ready for prior.
Again, I don't think the age difference is what made it unworkable. But it felt like we really couldn't connect past a certain point. In many ways, this felt like the relationship with the largest cultural gap. After her, I dated women within five years of my own age for quite a while.