They always found an excuse not to go out on a second date with me. I wouldn't want to go out on a date with me either. So instead you ask her the same boring questions that 100's of other guys have asked her. By asking her questions about a topic that all women are interested in, your conversation will begin to flow as easily as running water.
She'll love talking to you because you're talking about things that she loves.
Rather, I'm talking about the respect we have for ourselves. You're forced to wonder who's occupying his time, who's occupying his mind and why in God's name won't he treat you with the love and respect you deserve? These men are always the ones going job-to-job because “a better opportunity presented itself.”Well, no better opportunity presented itself; he's just lost in life and searching for the next best thing to give him his temporary fix. Some call these men bad boys; I call them insecure boys — with no drive and no vision for life.
This exact premise is what differentiates boys from men. He wants you one day, he doesn't want you the next. If he can't even focus eight hours a day on a career, what makes you think he can focus on a lifelong love with you? He doesn't want to see you more successful than him; that becomes a threat and too big of shot at his ego. Suddenly, that life you dreamt of as a young girl becomes a foregone reality.
"We wanted to understand the reasons for these gender differences," said the study's lead researcher, Gurit Birnbaum, an associate professor of psychology at the Interdisciplinary Center (IDC) Herzliya in Israel.
Sexual desire thrives on intimacy, and being responsive is one of the best ways to instill this elusive sensation over time, Birnbaum wrote in an email to Live Science.I hated going home on those evenings, feeling like a total loser. Almost every date I'd been on before had ended in failure. Well I bought every single one I could possibly get my hands on!My dates probably thought I was a boring nerd who had wasted their time, when they could have been out with someone really great. Then I spent the 3 whole weeks, reading them from cover to cover. You don't have any really interesting questions to ask her (you know, the type of questions that make your ears prick up and a smile appear on your face).Achieving success in these two categories catapults you to top-tier social status amongst your boys, gets you the nicest clothes, fanciest cars and VIP at the best clubs in town. A multitude of women throwing themselves at him isn't appealing, though. There's no fear in investing his time into her; he knows her worth. He'll impress you without ever having to say a word.It even makes you popular with women, and, well, who cares who you hurt in the process? He'll take initiative to plan special nights for you, he'll call you out of nowhere just to say hello, surprise you at work for lunch or send you flowers just because. You're not competing with other women for the top spot.